After spoiling my son for two whole weeks over the Christmas period, the time came on New Year’s Day to return him to university: cue motherly sobbing and gnashing of teeth. His exams were starting on 4th January and his girlfriend, Juliana, had a shift for her part-time Sainsbury’s job at 5pm on 1st January, hence the early departure.
I don’t think I’ve ever been awake on New Year’s day so early but it proved to be an excellent day to travel as the roads were very quiet. The only irritation was the deluge of rain during the final hour of the trip as we approached Exeter. Miraculously it dried up for a few moments as we unpacked the car then returned with a vengeance for the rest of the weekend.
Dougie and I were loathe to just come home to an empty house so, with a bit of prior planning, we organised a staggered return, staying for three nights in three different counties.
First up was Exeter itself and our third stay in The Magdalen Chapter (click through to read my review from last time). They had an excellent January getaway deal of one night’s accommodation with breakfast, three course set dinner and two glasses of wine for £149, which was a huge saving. When we arrived we were also upgraded (which was a real treat) so we had a spacious, comfortable room on the top floor of this cool, contemporary hotel.
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First night in The Magdalen Chapter, Exeter. |
The following morning we did a little shopping and sightseeing in the city. Every time we visit Exeter we find something new: this time it was the beautiful Northernhay Gardens and the RAMM (Royal Albert Memorial Museum and Art Gallery) whose oldest resident is Gerald the giraffe. The RAMM was an excellent museum, ideal for families, with lots of random exhibits, plenty of useful information and just the right amount of hands-on fun for children.
I wasn’t looking forward to leaving Rory but I couldn’t stand around in his flat forever looking like a spare part so I was gently persuaded that we ought to make a move. Next stop, Somerset, and the picture perfect pub, The Queens Arms, slightly off the beaten track in the village of Corton Denham near Sherborne. We had stayed here previously but I had neglected to write about it (Shameful! Call myself a travel blogger?). This is a fabulous pub with superb food, a myriad of gins and whiskies and the most cosy rooms with the warmest feather duvets and special touches such as a roll-top bath and a jute bag full of old-fashioned bath salts.
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Second night in The Queens Arms, Corton Denham, Somerset |
After the most delicious breakfast, cooked to order (Bloody Mary crumpets for me, thank you) we had to dash out in the pouring rain and leave this little Somerset gem to drive north. We were heading to Gloucestershire but had a stop to make en route in Bath to meet a blogger friend of mine. I have been online friends with MsCaroline of Asia Vu for some years now, connecting while she was living in Seoul. She has been in the UK for a year so it was high time we met up, particularly as I am virtually passing her door on our university runs. We agreed to meet, with our slightly bewildered husbands, at Cote restaurant in the centre of Bath. Two hours later, with all four of us having got on famously, we took some photos and pledged to see each other again in the near future. It’s always so reassuring when blogger friends prove to be just as you’d hoped they would be in real life.
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‘Mum’s Gone To’ meets ‘Asia Vu’. |
Our final stop was The Village Pub in Barnsley near Cirencester. We have eaten at the pub before, when we stayed at the beautiful Barnsley House hotel, its sister establishment, across the road. The pub is just as welcoming and charming but naturally more informal. Shaking off the rain, we settled down near the fire in the bar and read the Sunday papers, whilst supping on steamed cider with brandy. Our room, No.3 of 6, was gorgeous: warm with underfloor heating and even a hot-water bottle provided. Dinner in the pub was huge: Dougie’s Hereford beef consisted of two fillet steaks when one would have been more than adequate. My fish and chips were good but left me no room for pud. We staggered up the stairs to bed with our large slate welly-shaped key and slept like babies.
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Third night at The Village Pub, Barnsley, Cirencester |
Another impressive freshly-cooked breakfast the following morning (funny how our appetites returned so quickly) before a bit of retail therapy on the way home. The Village Pub is ideally located for so many gorgeous Cotswold sights but, when you’ve had your fill of sleepy towns with honey-coloured stone houses, the designer shopping outlet at Bicester Village is just the thing to bring you back to the real world. I found a bargain leather bag from Kipling (£215 to £57) and a little black dress from Anne Fontaine which made the journey back to Lincolnshire without our boy just a little more bearable…
Well that all sounds lovely…..you do get used to saying goodbye to the younguns don't you? but as a mom I know that it still pinches our hearts a little bit! I think I might have to try these places … they all sound so good….Happy New Year too xx
It has been easier than I initially thought it would be but, yes, it does 'pinch our hearts', that's so true.
We did have a lovely few days – and good to return to places we have visited before, something comforting about knowing what to expect – and how to find them!
I'm glad you made the best of your return trip. Nothing like a little self-indulgence to chase away the good-bye blues. 🙂
Those hotels look fabulous, the food sounds fantastic, and your bargains were a bargain! All in all, a weekend to remember.
Happy New Year! 🙂
It did feel very self-indulgent. Dougie says we can't really do this every time we leave him!
The weather was pretty miserable so these places were so perfect for staying warm, cosy and well-fed.
Happy New Year x
Wow! what gorgeous places! And I love that sign, how welcoming and refreshing. back in the old days of 20 years ago we ended on a mini break at a manor in Gloucestershire where there were signs everywhere, don't sit here, just look,don't touch, no noise. and charges just to light the fire in your room. She was sulky with us for not coming down for breakfast (hate having breakfast with other people. ) Nice to know people are thinking customer first.
That sounds pretty grim – I do think we are lucky now in the UK that there are some very good places to stay and the hospitality is far more relaxed than it used to be. Making guests feel at home is the key.
Looks like a great road trip and I'm so envious of your fab photos! V professional!
I'm delighted you like my photos as I'm really not that clued up. There are a mixture from my phone and my compact camera and I do very little but point and shoot. I find Picmonkey handy for making collages and always just lighten the photos up a bit if they are a bit dull.
Lovely hotels you frequent, also loving the photos, I am trying to get used to getting mine on my blog via my new iPad, could you hear me swearing in Lincs? X
I must admit, most of my photos on the blog are from my camera as I can manage putting the memory stick into the laptop. If I want to use a photo from my phone I find it easier to put the photo on Facebook and save it from there! I find taking photos with the iPad a fiddle as it feels heavy in my hands so they blur! Will listen out for the rude words!
You had me at bloody mary crumpets! How lovely that you got to meet Carolyne at last. I am looking forward to moving back one day and then the three of us can meet up! 😀 Love the sound of all of these hotels, what a fabulous idea. Not long until Easter xx
The three of us meeting sounds a grand idea!
It was such a great little break – living out of a small suitcase, not hanging anything up!
Yes, Easter soon and see my boy again…unless we pop down for a cheeky visit before then 🙂
You stayed just near me Trish! I live about 40 minutes from Barnsley (the name always amuses us because my husband is from the other Barnsley in S. Yorkshire!) Glad to read you made the most of the uni drop off and enjoyed three nights at three beautiful hotels:) #MondayEscapes
You live in a beautiful part of the country. Every time we visit the Cotswolds we are bowled over by it.
When Rory first moved to Exeter I moaned that he had chosen somewhere so far away but now I love it as I get to see all these super places.
You've got to love a pub that opens its arms in welcome to muddy dogs! Looks as though you stayed in some great places – that and the retail therapy were a good thing to take your mind off your son's departure. I can't imagine how that must be. My son's only 6 and I'm dreading it already!
Make the most of every moment with your son: the years will whizz by, especially when he reaches secondary school. It's so tough when they leave home but it gets easier and you have the chance to explore other areas of the country!
What a brilliant way to cheer yourself up after saying farewell to your son at uni. Plus a good way to remind us all how relaxing it can be when you're travelling without the kids! I LOVE the look of the Queen's Arms and how wonderful that they welcome muddy dogs and wellies (I always seem to have both!).
It definitely makes up for the long drive back home without him. Staying in three different places made the break feel even longer too!
Sounds like my perfect getaways – country pubs and great food and exploring. What are bloody Mary crumpets? I've never had them – they sound good! I'm glad you managed to stagger your return trip home with a pleasant trip – I can only imagine how hard it must have been to leave Rory… all that to come for me! #MondayEscapes
Bloody Mary crumpets had a poached egg and beef tomato on top.
It's getting a bit easier to leave him – especially knowing he is happy.
I think this is afab idea, we are actually looking for something to do over a midweek break early march and I am wondering if I locate various things we want to see and do something similar as I am struggling to find just one place to stop. Great idea, thank you and good you got to meet up with your blogging buddy x #MondayEscapes